20 Things to Stop Letting People Do to You

  1. Stop letting people drag you into needless arguments. – Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who have proven that they are committed to misunderstanding you.  And don’t define your intelligence or self-worth by the number of arguments you have won, but by the number of times you have said, “This needless nonsense is not worth my time!”
  2. Stop letting people drown you with their negativity. – Positivity is a choice.  Choose wisely.  Be smart enough to walk away from the negativity around you… it is never worth your while, ever.
  3. Stop letting people make you feel ashamed of your scars. – Scars remind us that our past is real, and that we have grown beyond it.  Every scar has a story.  Don’t be afraid to tell it and own it.
  4. Stop listening to those who berate you for your honest mistakes. – To grow strong and wise, you must have the courage to make mistakes.  Allow yourself to be a beginner.  No one starts off being excellent.
  5. Stop letting others blind you from YOUR truth. – Today, the only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.  Prove yourself to yourself, not others.  
  6. Stop letting people bully you. – Bullying is not OK.  Period.  There is no freedom on Earth that gives someone the right to assault who you are as a person.  Sadly, some people just won’t be happy until they’ve pushed your ego to the ground and stomped on it.  What you have to do is have the nerve to stand your ground.  Don’t give them any leeway.  Nobody has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power.
  7. Stop letting friends be untrue to you. – What is a true friend?  Someone who loves you just the way you are, but still inspires you to be a better person.  BE a true friend to others, and keep only true friends close to you.
  8. Stop letting the same people lie to you over and over again. – If someone fools you once, shame on them.  If someone fools you twice, shame on you.  If you catch someone lying to you, speak up.  Some people will lie to you repeatedly in a vicious effort to get you to repeat their lies over and over until they effectively become true.  Don’t partake in their nonsense.  Don’t let their lies be your reality.

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Enough of my graduation picture. HAHA Okay na yung ilang araw ng exposure. And now balik sa forever HOT na picture ni Zac Efron as my avatar. Nakahubad yan kasi summer ngayon. Hnng. 

Miss you all guys. Family matters.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

"Easter is also about moving on from gloom to joy. In so far as we focus on what is missing instead of being grateful for our blessings, then our lives are heavy and our journey burdensome. In so far as we focus on our "konsimsyon", we forgot our Easter mission. Yes, Easter is moving on, joyfully!"

"How did you spend the Holy Week that was? How you feel on this Easter morning depends on how you spent the Holy Week. If you "invested" your time, talents, and treasures to make the Holy Week meaningful, then your Easter is real. If you did not, then your Easter is empty."

"Some events of our lives can change us forever. The Lord often allows things to happen to us, good or bad, happy or sad, in order to wake us up or prod us on in our journey."

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Don’t find a person who can understand you instead find a person that will never leave you even if he/she cannot understand you.

5 Habits Of Emotionally Intelligent People

Emotional intelligence is the most powerful tool for success — not only in in romantic relationships, but business, too. In fact, the same rules for achieving your goals in business also apply to love.

Here are five practices that people with high EQs use to achieve success at both work and in their personal lives:

1. Follow actions, not words. 

When I hire someone, I don’t pay much attention to lip service about accountability or hard work. Instead, I screen for a solid track record — do they meet deadlines? Make calls? Close deals? What are they doing (not saying)?

In business and personal matters, talk is cheap.

2. Check yourself. 

We’re all emotional people, and sometimes little things can turn into unnecessarily big deals. emotionally intelligent people know how to push pause before making a perceived slight into a colossal deal. Did someone interrupt you in a meeting? Instead of stewing about it or plotting revenge, consider that the person is possibly distracted by personal issues at home. Maybe they felt scrutinized by their boss that day and was over-compensating with their boisterous presentation. Rise above it and give them the benefit of the doubt. It’s not always about you.  

The same rules apply to your romantic and business relationships. Everyone has bad days and everyone has their quirks. Just because your date doesn’t feel like dancing doesn’t mean she is embarrassed to be seen with you, or that you should never go out with her again. Take the incident for what it is and move on.

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"Be compassionate. And take responsibility for each other. If we only learned those lessons, this world would be so much better a place."

"Living means I can be responsive to the other person. It means I can show my emotions and my feelings. Talk to them. Feel with them."

"In the beginning of life, when we are infants, we need others to survive, right? And at the end of life, when we are dying, you need others to survive, right? 

But here’s the secret: in between, we need others as well.”

Friday, April 18, 2014

Simple humor never failed to impress me. That kind of humor which comes out naturally from a person without forcing it. I think, that’s cool and one of the best things in this world.

Grand Feast on Sunday kaso hindi ako makakapunta dahil may activity ang YFC LPU. HUHU Sayang ang experience. Kahit kailan hindi pa ako nakaka-attend ng Feast Manila e. First time ko sana sa Sunday.

Pero may ibang pinapalakad sakin si Lord. Mas masaya daw ang bonding kasama ang YFC LPU. Excited na ako makita sila ulit :)

I Won't Give Up by John Angelo Diamos

Sinong hindi maiinlove sa ganitong boses? :”)

Invest in the human family. Invest in people. Build a little community of those you love and who you love.

 
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